
There’s a moment we’ve all had – watching someone (maybe ourselves) reject good advice, resist an obvious solution, or double down on a bad decision for no reason other than sheer and irrational stubbornness.
That moment of exasperation, of wanting to shake someone out of their self-inflicted misery is the beating heart of Baby Can’t Be Helped, the latest folk-punk gut punch from Stephen Jaymes.
There is plenty to protest about, but it’s not a protest song per se. It’s more of a diagnosis of the human condition, an examination of that part of the brain that knows its making things worse but does it anyway.
And Jaymes gives it a name here: Baby. Baby thrives on self-destruction. And worst of all. Baby will drag you down with it if you are not careful.
Jaymes sets the scene with a deceptively steady opening – muted, contemplative chords that sound like someone pacing the room, trying to keep their cool. But there is tension simmering underneath. Then Jaymes’s voice enters, like a weary therapist trying one last time to get through to a particularly hopeless case.
By the time that the chorus arrives, the frustration is breaking through in a bluesey, spiralling progression that feels like a resolustion, only to be yanked back down. Every time the song builds towards resolution, it stops just short and mirrors the maddening cycle of trying to reason with Baby. It is folk punk storytelling at its finest, crafted with the kind of precision that makes every note feel intentional.
While “Baby Can’t Be Helped” isn’t a song about politics, it is about the mechanics of self-sabotage, both personal and collective. In an era where solutions to major crises are right in front of us but constantly ignored, where power structures are designed to lock us in to bad habits, “Baby Can’t Be Helped” lands like a knowing sigh.
But Jaymes isn’t here to tell us to give up. Quite the opposite. If there is a hidden message in the song’s relentless back-and-forth, it’s this: recognition is the first step to change.
That’s where Jaymes’s larger VISION2025 movement comes in. It is a counterpoint to the creeping dread of the coming years and a reminder that if we may just have a chance if we pay attention.
In this tight, nuanced ride of a song, Jaymes’s voice never explodes. Instead, he holds up a mirror to the system. It’s a warning, a challenge, and maybe, just maybe, a way forwards. Because Baby may not be able to help itself. But we still have a choice.
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